Collective Anxiety: Is anxiety a new normal for our times?

Anxiety. It’s something I feel more often these days, especially as the year winds down. When I look around, I know I’m not alone. There’s a heaviness, a collective sigh.

Nearly 1 in 5 adults report experiencing mental health issues each year – a stat that’s practically asking us to take up group therapy as a new hobby. Since 2000, rates of anxiety and depression have surged by nearly 50%, with younger generations leading the trend as modern stressors push more people toward seeking support. And yet, I try to remind myself that there’s humor and hope woven into the fabric of even the most anxious times. I thought I’d share a few reasons that seem to be stirring this modern-day anxiety cocktail – and maybe offer a laugh or two along the way.

Family Life’s Seasonal Demands
This time of year, it’s like life cranks up the volume on responsibilities. School events, family gatherings, holiday planning – the sheer number of moving parts makes my head spin. I wonder, do other parents also lie awake at night, ticking off to-do lists? Somehow, the calendar keeps shrinking, and the pressure only grows. It’s like life’s holding a stopwatch and saying, “You’re behind!” I’ve learned to laugh at the absurdity of it all. We’re all human, doing the best we can.

Economic Uncertainty and AI’s Rise
Ah, the economy. Just the word can send a jolt of stress through the system. Housing prices skyrocket, inflation wobbles like a tightrope walker, and we’re left asking, “What does the future hold?” Add artificial intelligence to the mix, and suddenly, everything feels even murkier. Will AI take our jobs or save them? The uncertainty can be daunting. But I’ve noticed something: we’re all quietly adapting, asking tough questions, and sharing ideas. And that, I think, is a powerful thing.

The Political Landscape
Political news is… a lot these days. Maybe that’s an understatement. From heated debates to policy changes, the tension is palpable. Sometimes I catch myself shaking my head, wondering how we got here. And yet, I also see people becoming more engaged, determined to make a difference. It’s heartening to know that I’m not the only one caring deeply, even if I feel anxious about the path we’re on.

Global Warming and the Planet’s Future
Climate anxiety is real. It’s hard not to feel the weight of it when I hear about wildfires, hurricanes, melting glaciers. I want a safe, thriving world for the next generation, and the uncertainty is difficult. But I also see incredible people out there making a change. Scientists, activists, everyday folks choosing eco-friendly options. It reminds me that small actions matter, and there’s a bit of hope mixed in with the worry.

Living with Anxiety – And Laughing Anyway
Yes, these are heavy times. And yes, there’s a lot to worry about. But there’s also a strength in knowing that I’m not facing this alone. We’re all anxious about something, and yet here we are – talking, laughing, doing what we can. I’ve found that some days, a little humor goes a long way. A wry laugh with a friend or a quiet moment to appreciate the absurdity of it all reminds me: we’re in this together.

Maybe that’s the real secret. Anxiety may linger, but so does hope. So does community. Distrust may be palpable, but love triumphs. We’re all living through challenging times, but together, we’re braver than we think. Perhaps more than ever, we need to look out for each other, offer a caring word, a helping hand, and remind one another that we’re not alone.

Lamposts

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My mind swims with thoughts of sweet escape;
as days fuse into seasons and seasons glow like
lampposts of life. Each year these lampposts get closer,
glowing with an eerie halo of winter mist. Spring and summer
have waltzed out and fall creeps behind the curtain with tired feet.

I have stopped reading the world in rolled up newspapers,
or counting time with a cuckoo’s tick-tock, tick-tock. Even this bitter
coffee can’t do enough to wake me out my reveries. My heart is like
bees that would forever hang on to the morning, sucking the nectar of youth.
Aah youth that has escaped, like a cloud of hot steam hovering over the whining kettle.

Praise

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Inside the sitting room of my memory

play the retired ghosts of past years.

School’s out. The summer heat shimmers

so bright, even coolers and fans cannot

bring down the day’s fever. In the garden

a chameleon changes colors faster than a

thirteen year old changes her mind.

The trees weary of the heat droop

over; dropping gold coins that curl up

when dry, flocking into heaps of fallen pride

waiting to be swept away the next morning.

In the sitting room my father irons a week’s

worth of his white collar job into perfectly

creased shirts and pants. I lean over into the

floor painting carnivals of landscapes, rich pastels

bleeding into the white marble floor.

Inside the kitchen my mother tosses red chilies

into pots of simmering curry hot as day. And my sister

straightens her curls with dreamy fingers, musing up her

life in teenage novels.

How sad that we should never offer praise to the simpler moments

of life, at least not until decades later when the sitting room with its

resident memories has gone up in gold and silver smoke

billowing into the cool, black night…

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Thresholds

We find ourselves on the threshold of life changing moments, at least a few times in our lives. Thresholds may be subtle or more pronounced “aha” moments when we experience life with the full realization that life as we knew it has changed irrevocably, and that we have stepped into the realms of “no return”. We all experience these moments during the natural transition of life; moving from infancy into adolescence, and then again into adulthood, and so forth. There are other moments when we experience a sudden loss or a deeper life altering experience that changes the direction of our lives forever.

Life’s major thresholds such as: graduation, marriage, birth, divorce, death etc bring feelings of anticipation, anxiety, trepidation, joy, anger or loss. But then there are thresholds that are so obscure and possibly unrelated; we do not even know we crossed them until much later. These could be Historic moments that are out of our control, and change our world for the better or worse. Examples include; landing of man at moon, Reunification of Germany, Assassination of JFK, bombing of the World Trade Center and so forth. We may as well have been a part of these momentous times as they happened, but the full effect of such incidents is truly understood only in hindsight.

Although change is a continuous process, thresholds are distinct points in our lives that open a floodgate of change, awareness and awakening. Because the only thing constant in life is change, it behooves us to look at change in a positive light and with the stoic acceptance that everything happens for the best. Each change no matter how uncomfortable, opens in itself a pandora’s box of opportunity, learning and wisdom. Inpired by Weekly photo challenge

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Ritual

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Ritual

7 o’ clock, Good Morning!

Get ready for the crazy day ahead but first,

Coffee with extra sugar, “let’s start blogging”,

Dash out to work, “hello”, some warm, some curt.

12o’ clock, good afternoon,

Run to the gym for lunch, get much needed exercise

My imagination runs dry, I need monsoon,

By 2Pm I have had a review, my accomplishments trivialized

Its 6o’ clock, I am still at work

Emails to answer, Reports to churn,

Outside smog is thickening dusk,

Humdrum day gathers dust.

‘Tis 8’ o clock, aah my feet hurt

Switch on the tube to drown the day, scour the fridge for victuals

Submerge in couch, no more energy to exert,

Another day, year, life; same ole same: a Trivial Ritual.

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